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RELATIONSHIP EDGING VS EUPHORIA

Darling ladies... Those people telling you that Surrender is bs? They don't understand it. They either ate the lie that being just like men would make them happy... Or They STOPPED at submission. Don't get me wrong...I KNOW submission. I've taught on submission since the early 90s. First i...

HUSBAND OR PROP

I often hear women talk about what they want in a man. Or how they desire their husband to handle them. One often relegates him to the prop in your marriage fantasy and the other is a step in the right direction of creating your Heaven on Earth. In fact if you know who YOU want to be it becomes...

THE GILDED GELDING

The Masculine being received and absolutely Embodied by Men is just as needed as Feminine Embodiment by women. Instead of this Truth, most spiritual and consciousness teachers offer a neutered vision of man - one that is deeply feminized - as the avatar of awareness and Awakening. They offer a ...

CLOSETS VS BOUNDARIES

Recently I wrote a post that received a lot of anger and hostility especially from members of a community we USED to belong to. And they came for us ... HARD. Not only did they call themselves "outing" my husband and I - they also made some libelous claims about our profiting from that communit...

FROM ROYAL TO COMMON

Recently we were reading about the stripping of the Royal and Honorary Titles from Harry and Meghan. While there has been a great deal of speculation concerning racism and mistreatment and his standing by his wife... that is not what we want to discuss. What we want to discuss is the INFLUENCE o...

YOUR SEX & RELATIONSHIP TEACHINGS ARE KILLING TRUE INTIMACY

Time for more uncomfortable truths. There is NO industry that is full of more "experts" that are inept than the love and relationship niche. Every day I see love and relationship teachers who -in all candor- don't know what they're talking about. However, because your emotional and energetic p...

THE REALITY OF THE MASCULINE VS THE FANTASY

I often speak about the distortions in the Feminist movement, gender studies programs and the ideology of everyone having both genders which of course leads to the belief that Gender is a spectrum. Now it is time to speak to another distortion. The idealized Masculine or Feminine  prop. T...

CULT OR DIVINE ECOLOGY?

Periodically we get called a cult. In fact there are people in the world who have written entire blog series about the cult of us. This was confounding to me because at one time I was a teacher in the Christian Counter cult movement, and I knew we didn’t meet the definition. Then I realiz...

MILLIONS DON’T MATTER IF YOU CANT MASTER MARRIAGE

Let’s be HONEST Leaders OFTEN suck at relationships. Spiritual Leaders and Coaches have an average 2 year relationship. Often never including Marriage. Or if married it's full of chaos and confusion. Time to take a hard look - if the best in the business have a coach - you know you don...

ON RELATIONSHIP CONFLICT

Most people don’t understand what drives relationship conflict and so they enter into the relationship with an idealized idea that “whatever it is, it’ll work out I’m sure!” When this doesn’t happen they go into relationship conflict lizard brain: 1. Fight- a...