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MIDNIGHT MUSING

I spent a number of years as a human resource manager, and there was a pattern of behavior I saw: When a person didn’t have a job they were often upset, frustrated and sad. They put on their best stuff to go to interviews, they researched how to better their resume, they may even spend th...

RELATIONSHIP EDGING VS EUPHORIA

Darling ladies... Those people telling you that Surrender is bs? They don't understand it. They either ate the lie that being just like men would make them happy... Or They STOPPED at submission. Don't get me wrong...I KNOW submission. I've taught on submission since the early 90s. First i...

HUSBAND OR PROP

I often hear women talk about what they want in a man. Or how they desire their husband to handle them. One often relegates him to the prop in your marriage fantasy and the other is a step in the right direction of creating your Heaven on Earth. In fact if you know who YOU want to be it becomes...

THE GILDED GELDING

The Masculine being received and absolutely Embodied by Men is just as needed as Feminine Embodiment by women. Instead of this Truth, most spiritual and consciousness teachers offer a neutered vision of man - one that is deeply feminized - as the avatar of awareness and Awakening. They offer a ...

CLOSETS VS BOUNDARIES

Recently I wrote a post that received a lot of anger and hostility especially from members of a community we USED to belong to. And they came for us ... HARD. Not only did they call themselves "outing" my husband and I - they also made some libelous claims about our profiting from that communit...

YOUR SEX & RELATIONSHIP TEACHINGS ARE KILLING TRUE INTIMACY

Time for more uncomfortable truths. There is NO industry that is full of more "experts" that are inept than the love and relationship niche. Every day I see love and relationship teachers who -in all candor- don't know what they're talking about. However, because your emotional and energetic p...

MILLIONS DON’T MATTER IF YOU CANT MASTER MARRIAGE

Let’s be HONEST Leaders OFTEN suck at relationships. Spiritual Leaders and Coaches have an average 2 year relationship. Often never including Marriage. Or if married it's full of chaos and confusion. Time to take a hard look - if the best in the business have a coach - you know you don...

ON RELATIONSHIP CONFLICT

Most people don’t understand what drives relationship conflict and so they enter into the relationship with an idealized idea that “whatever it is, it’ll work out I’m sure!” When this doesn’t happen they go into relationship conflict lizard brain: 1. Fight- a...

SUSTAINING A HAPPY AND HEALTHY MARRIAGE

We have a dog who we love named Layla… When we got her she was a puppy. Her former owner did not tell us her true age. She was much younger than we were told. She did not receive the imprinting of how to be a dog that she should have from her mother and littermates. Because of that, L...

WHY WOMEN NEED THEIR MASCULINE BELOVED

I am so happy to see so many women acknowledging their need for their King/Husband/Masculine Beloved! This is VITAL to our well-being and yet it can be so challenging because so many of us have been taught NOT to need him. Either through our upbringing, through our experiences with having our h...